How to overcome shyness with girls?? Dimers plzz help..!!!

Thanks vish bro for ur reply..
I m 18 and i m shy just in front of my batch mate and i like her as well and i also know she likes me as well(she often blushes and smiles whenever there is an eye contact b/w us).The problem is that i m unable to initiate a talk with her bcoz whenever i see her in front my brain goes upside down(Hell is my brain..!!)..Plz help me..!!
Great Thanks once again Vish bro for ur reply.:-}

@R@ck B@TT@M wrote:@

I can resolve these issues over the phone – LoveGuru charges Rs 1,000 per hour
credentials – 4 girlfriends, 4 flings, lot of heartbreaks on both sides

Arey love guru bhaiya hame bhi thoda gyaan baat dijiye..:-}

Koi deal ya coupon ?

viSH wrote:

Well first of all tell me whats your age?
And by shyness you meant like you shy away infront of every girl you see or just with a particular or a bunch of girls?

Thanks vish bro for ur reply..
I m 18 and i m shy just in front of my batch mate and i like her as well and i also know she likes me as well(she often blushes and smiles whenever there is an eye contact b/w us).The problem is that i m unable to initiate a talk with her bcoz whenever i see her in front my brain goes upside down(Hell is my brain..!!)..Plz help me..!!
Great Thanks once again Vish bro for ur reply.

@R@ck B@TT@M wrote:@

I can resolve these issues over the phone – LoveGuru charges Rs 1,000 per hour
credentials – 4 girlfriends, 4 flings, lot of heartbreaks on both sides

I’d do it for free just for the heck of it….LOL!

@coolsajal4261

Anyways, as for my credentials, I have been in love, some flings, lots of flirting, quite picky, never got dumped for some stupid fcuk, mutually split(no talking and all of that BS) and other unmentionable experiences galore as well.

Have helped setup my pals with their chicks since school days and mainly never charged them a dime for it.

Anyways, the intention of it was to let you know that I have hell lots of experience in setting up love birds or something like that.

So tell us about your scene then, maybe then we can help set you up and running as well.:-D

RamZ wrote:

@R@ck B@TT@M wrote:@

I can resolve these issues over the phone – LoveGuru charges Rs 1,000 per hour
credentials – 4 girlfriends, 4 flings, lot of heartbreaks on both sides

I’d do it for free just for the heck of it….LOL!

@coolsajal4261

Anyways, as for my credentials, I have been in love, some flings, lots of flirting, quite picky, never got dumped for some stupid fcuk, mutually split(no talking and all of that BS) and other unmentionable experiences galore as well.

Have helped setup my pals with their chicks since school days and mainly never charged them a dime for it.

Anyways, the intention of it was to let you know that I have hell lots of experience in setting up love birds or something like that.

So tell us about your scene then, maybe then we can help set you up and running as well.:-D

harshk wrote:

Yaha to love gurus ki puri battalion hain

Bilkul Dimers Har kaam main bohat aagey hai..!!

RamZ Bhai main Kaunsa usse bank transfer karva raha tha.. :p

Chalo let him spill the beans and we’ll help him out

Rule 1 – never think she is better looking and you’re a chooo
Rule 2 – don’t stare too much or too little, let her know your eyes are stuck and only she can help you, indirectly though
Rule 3 – don’t delay it ti eternity, take the plunge, get the yea/ no before someone like me/RamZ enters the farmland and and destroys it in front of your eyes
Rule 4 – read the above
Rule 5 – that’s it dude, ain’t no more rules, just go out and grab her (not literally!)

Thanks rock bottom bro..Rule no.3 is very important i guess..!!!
All the rules are noted in my mind and will try hard infact very hard to apply them on the spot..!!

Great Thanks to everyone, u r so kind to help to get out a fellow dimer of a trap..
Thanks once again.:-}

coolsajal4261 wrote:

Thanks vish bro for ur reply..
I m 18 and i m shy just in front of my batch mate and i like her as well and i also know she likes me as well(she often blushes and smiles whenever there is an eye contact b/w us).The problem is that i m unable to initiate a talk with her bcoz whenever i see her in front my brain goes upside down(Hell is my brain..!!)..Plz help me..!!
Great Thanks once again Vish bro for ur reply.:-}

Ok so its a love story in the making.
You know its very very easy to get away with the shyness if you think sex but since your case is of love so no matter what we say you will find yourself in a mess all the time.
The best way to get over this shyness is to first strike a conversation with her in a form of sms’es and please please please stay away from those stupid social networking sites cos that might spoil your manhood since your teenage is going to get over soon.

Hope you already have her no. so go ahead and send her some texts like “sneha u awake? or a simple hi”
See the point is baat karne se baat banti hai.
And trust me she blushes and smiles at you only cos of your shyness so bro you got a wonderful weapon in a form of shyness make full use of it.

coolsajal4261 wrote:

Thanks rock bottom bro..Rule no.3 is very important i guess..!!!
All the rules are noted in my mind and will try hard infact very hard to apply them on the spot..!!

Rule number 3 actually decides your fate as to what you mean to her….Bhaiyaa or saiyyan? Bhaiyaa option is ruled out here for sure. You’d never want that and neither does she as per your saying.

Saiyyan banna hai toh rule number 3 completely depends upon your timing, setup, her mood, your confidence and most importantly the way you approach the whole thing.

One more thing, register it and make good a note of this sporadic law, every girl/woman is unique, both bodily and psychologically, every woman is a different and a unique experience, again both bodily and psychologically and don’t let anybody else tell you any different. Keep all the aforementioned advises and rules in your head, apply some common sense and you should be good enough to make your moves, the right moves I mean and nothing stupid to fudge it all completely. Do not worry, be spontaneous. Girls love spontaneous guys.They dig that for sure.

You will score and you will score big pal!

viSH wrote:

coolsajal4261 wrote:

Thanks vish bro for ur reply..
I m 18 and i m shy just in front of my batch mate and i like her as well and i also know she likes me as well(she often blushes and smiles whenever there is an eye contact b/w us).The problem is that i m unable to initiate a talk with her bcoz whenever i see her in front my brain goes upside down(Hell is my brain..!!)..Plz help me..!!
Great Thanks once again Vish bro for ur reply.:-}

Ok so its a love story in the making.
You know its very very easy to get away with the shyness if you think sex but since your case is of love so no matter what we say you will find yourself in a mess all the time.
The best way to get over this shyness is to first strike a conversation with her in a form of sms’es and please please please stay away from those stupid social networking sites cos that might spoil your manhood since your teenage is going to get over soon.

Hope you already have her no. so go ahead and send her some texts like “sneha u awake? or a simple hi”
See the point is baat karne se baat banti hai.
And trust me she blushes and smiles at you only cos of your shyness so bro you got a wonderful weapon in a form of shyness make full use of it.

Vish, I wouldn’t call it love for sure. I don’t wanna sound rude but I believe we have all been through that back in our teens. Back then even we thought it was love but if you’d ask me now, I definitely won’t call it that.

Don’t wanna discourage this lad here but this looks more of a teenage puppy love. Normally every body goes through it in their lives at this point in time. Boy, enjoy this time and don’t let it slip out either for it shall never come again.

viSH wrote:

coolsajal4261 wrote:

Thanks vish bro for ur reply..
I m 18 and i m shy just in front of my batch mate and i like her as well and i also know she likes me as well(she often blushes and smiles whenever there is an eye contact b/w us).The problem is that i m unable to initiate a talk with her bcoz whenever i see her in front my brain goes upside down(Hell is my brain..!!)..Plz help me..!!
Great Thanks once again Vish bro for ur reply.:-}

Ok so its a love story in the making.
You know its very very easy to get away with the shyness if you think sex but since your case is of love so no matter what we say you will find yourself in a mess all the time.
The best way to get over this shyness is to first strike a conversation with her in a form of sms’es and please please please stay away from those stupid social networking sites cos that might spoil your manhood since your teenage is going to get over soon.

Hope you already have her no. so go ahead and send her some texts like “sneha u awake? or a simple hi”
See the point is baat karne se baat banti hai.
And trust me she blushes and smiles at you only cos of your shyness so bro you got a wonderful weapon in a form of shyness make full use of it.

RamZ wrote:

viSH wrote:

coolsajal4261 wrote:

Thanks vish bro for ur reply..
I m 18 and i m shy just in front of my batch mate and i like her as well and i also know she likes me as well(she often blushes and smiles whenever there is an eye contact b/w us).The problem is that i m unable to initiate a talk with her bcoz whenever i see her in front my brain goes upside down(Hell is my brain..!!)..Plz help me..!!
Great Thanks once again Vish bro for ur reply.:-}

Ok so its a love story in the making.
You know its very very easy to get away with the shyness if you think sex but since your case is of love so no matter what we say you will find yourself in a mess all the time.
The best way to get over this shyness is to first strike a conversation with her in a form of sms’es and please please please stay away from those stupid social networking sites cos that might spoil your manhood since your teenage is going to get over soon.

Hope you already have her no. so go ahead and send her some texts like “sneha u awake? or a simple hi”
See the point is baat karne se baat banti hai.
And trust me she blushes and smiles at you only cos of your shyness so bro you got a wonderful weapon in a form of shyness make full use of it.

Vish, I wouldn’t call it love for sure. I don’t wanna sound rude but I believe we have all been through that back in our teens. Back then even we thought it was love but if you’d ask me now, I definitely won’t call it that.

Don’t wanna discourage this lad here but this looks more of a teenage puppy love. Normally every body goes through it in their lives at this point in time. Boy, enjoy this time and don’t let it slip out either for it shall never come again.

@R@ck B@TT@M wrote:@

RamZ Bhai main Kaunsa usse bank transfer karva raha tha.. :p

Chalo let him spill the beans and we’ll help him out

Rule 1 – never think she is better looking and you’re a chooo
Rule 2 – don’t stare too much or too little, let her know your eyes are stuck and only she can help you, indirectly though
Rule 3 – don’t delay it ti eternity, take the plunge, get the yea/ no before someone like me/RamZ enters the farmland and and destroys it in front of your eyes
Rule 4 – read the above
Rule 5 – that’s it dude, ain’t no more rules, just go out and grab her (not literally!)

Bhai all this is right, but what happens when ur head starts aching when a girl u are looking at starts staring back…

Mera ek friend hai who has this problem Suggestion need.

BTW m 21yrs, i mean my friend is 21yrs Ek mutual breakup, now single and gets headache the moment eye contact hota hai.

*@RamZ wrote

Vish, I wouldn’t call it love for sure. I don’t wanna sound rude but I believe we have all been through that back in our teens. Back then even we thought it was love but if you’d ask me now, I definitely won’t call it that.


Don’t wanna discourage this lad here but this looks more of a teenage puppy love. Normally every body goes through it in their lives at this point in time. Boy, enjoy this time and don’t let it slip out either for it shall never come again.

Ramz sir I know that but like I said no matter what we say its very hard to get someone convinced that its infatuation not love.
Cos when we were in that phase then we also got advice from experienced people(I never got any cos I was born experienced:P) but did we listen to them?
Not at all..

Its good for him that he is experiencing this soon he will be one of us after gathering all the real hardcore experience.

viSH wrote:

Its good for him that he is experiencing this soon he will be one of us after gathering all the real hardcore experience.

Yup that will add to your learning curve

The advice RDX bhai gave was something i did 3yrs back. It was an classic story, me showing off in front of her when i got the chance. All the while acting like i didnt no she was there and used to come back home and search the net and orkut madly to find her. Finally after three days of my tough effort in front of her, she send me a orkut request. Saw the request early in the morning and it was like a dream come true…. 2yr tak chala phir it was over. Like ramz bhai told puppy love, miss the days…

viSH wrote:

*@RamZ wrote

Vish, I wouldn’t call it love for sure. I don’t wanna sound rude but I believe we have all been through that back in our teens. Back then even we thought it was love but if you’d ask me now, I definitely won’t call it that.


Don’t wanna discourage this lad here but this looks more of a teenage puppy love. Normally every body goes through it in their lives at this point in time. Boy, enjoy this time and don’t let it slip out either for it shall never come again.

Ramz sir I know that but like I said no matter what we say its very hard to get someone convinced that its infatuation not love.
Cos when we were in that phase then we also got advice from experienced people(I never got any cos I was born experienced:P) but did we listen to them?
Not at all..

Its good for him that he is experiencing this soon he will be one of us after gathering all the real hardcore experience.

Binit wrote:

The advice RDX bhai gave was something i did 3yrs back. It was an classic story, me showing off in front of her when i got the chance. All the while acting like i didnt no she was there and used to come back home and search the net and orkut madly to find her. Finally after three days of my tough effort in front of her, she send me a orkut request. Saw the request early in the morning and it was like a dream come true…. 2yr tak chala phir it was over. Like ramz bhai told puppy love, miss the days…

ohh..gr8.:-}

RDX BHAI kahan hain aap?
Agar ladki pataane ka koi COUPON ya VOUCHER de dete to badi meherbaani hogi aapki…

Bhai all in good times, u may probably find cuter once in the future

Tab bolna “She was cute and so was my dog. So i left her for u my doggy ”https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor..." alt=“toungueout” border=“0”/> "

mai kutta hu tu meri kutiya hai

viSH wrote:

*@RamZ wrote

Vish, I wouldn’t call it love for sure. I don’t wanna sound rude but I believe we have all been through that back in our teens. Back then even we thought it was love but if you’d ask me now, I definitely won’t call it that.


Don’t wanna discourage this lad here but this looks more of a teenage puppy love. Normally every body goes through it in their lives at this point in time. Boy, enjoy this time and don’t let it slip out either for it shall never come again.

Ramz sir I know that but like I said no matter what we say its very hard to get someone convinced that its infatuation not love.
Cos when we were in that phase then we also got advice from experienced people(I never got any cos I was born experienced:P) but did we listen to them?
Not at all..

Its good for him that he is experiencing this soon he will be one of us after gathering all the real hardcore experience.

Dude, this brings back a lot of fun I had at the RD selection camp back then. Man that sure was fun as hell. We had all those talks about GFs, the fights, 24 X 7 sirf MC, BC waali gaaliyaan sunn sunn ke pakh gaya tha mein toh. I was 17 back then and I used to hang out and had made friends with folks who were from the Army wing,from another city, C certificate, implying they were into graduation.There was this girl and we used to exchange looks and all of that. I remember she was the only girl who had me embalmed with her exquisite beauty. We all turned charcoal being out there in the sun all day long with our rifles and the rifle drill and all and she used to shine in the crowd even then. Guess what? I happened to find her on Facebook as a mutual friend. She doesn’t look that good to me now like she did back then or maybe I moved up in the world. But that is the way it is now. Gosh I wonder how time flies by.Now that’s why I believe we should certain activities when the time is right.

coolsajal4261 wrote:

viSH wrote:

*@RamZ wrote

Vish, I wouldn’t call it love for sure. I don’t wanna sound rude but I believe we have all been through that back in our teens. Back then even we thought it was love but if you’d ask me now, I definitely won’t call it that.


Don’t wanna discourage this lad here but this looks more of a teenage puppy love. Normally every body goes through it in their lives at this point in time. Boy, enjoy this time and don’t let it slip out either for it shall never come again.

Ramz sir I know that but like I said no matter what we say its very hard to get someone convinced that its infatuation not love.
Cos when we were in that phase then we also got advice from experienced people(I never got any cos I was born experienced:P) but did we listen to them?
Not at all..

Its good for him that he is experiencing this soon he will be one of us after gathering all the real hardcore experience.

m hoping that this should be my first and last one…as she is too cute..

I seriously don’t wish that on you coz the way man was built was to spread his seeds…that was enough of biology I guess. But figuratively speaking, you just started your life, it’s still a long way ahead till you really decide for your self that this is the one you have waited all your life.

Give this girl sometime, you’ll be good to decide that for yourself. Also some gals have hidden motives as well, so don’t let them get the better of you and make a big hole in your pocket and your life as well. Be tactful, be smart.