Stepping into the 30's today, journey across DesiDime through the 20's

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2025-01-09

DesiDime has been a big part of my entire 20's. I started using it back in 2013, though that id got suspended as I included FPD in deal title and it was against rules. Ever since this new id dating back to 2016, I have had very meaningful conversations and formed connections with so many dimers, apart from all the deals and loots. This community has given me so much and I express my gratitude for all the good and fun times here.

Today, I mark an end to my 20's and step into my 30's. Plenty of things to look forward to in this decade.

Any advice from fellow dimers regarding family, finance, life in general or anything would be very welcome.

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sherlock

2025-01-09

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Finance: “Money is a tool, not a goal—control it, or it will control you.”

Family: “Blood makes you related; loyalty makes you family.”

Life: “The world owes you nothing—work for everything you want.”

“In the end, we only regret the chances we didn’t take and the battles we didn’t fight.”

Congratulations and wish you all the best @kshmr

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sherlock

2025-01-09

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Agni007

2025-01-09

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I wish to add, try to be honest, trustworthy, loyal and avoid being crafty or destructive, unless the other party does something to the level that it has to be answered in that way... whatever the kalyug or it's people demand, try to be on correct path, there's inherent happiness in being like that...

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Simbha3

2025-01-09

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get married if you are not yet.

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sherlock

2025-01-09

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kshmr

2025-01-09

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Thanks mate for the insights. 🙏 Quite thought provoking and intriguing.

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Censuresh

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2025-01-09

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Congratulations , appreciate your wise comments on deals.

As you step into 30's , sure you gotta be wiser , and

we are going to se a new YOU.

Can we now expect a few more FPD ?

By the way what was your old ID

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botlike

2025-01-09

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Happy birthday Kashmir bro

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Simbha3

2025-01-09

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get married if you are not yet.

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Rajkotian

2025-01-09

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+1 😂

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Nav24

2025-01-09

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30ies is a wonderful period... Enjoy. Your are to become more wiser, start investing more to build your savings, get into family mode , plan kids.. Balance work/family... Most important be happy, healthy and stress free if possible .. Best wishes

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Pankaj_

2025-01-09

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Happy birthday bro.

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Mumbaikar

2025-01-09

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Happy Birthday Kashmir .

Make true relationship and don't make relationship for monetary or social benefits only. Paisa hain toh rishtedar ya Dost ban jao like relationship

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nsprakash19

2025-01-09

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You will come across a lot of temporary people. Remember everyone is a passing cloud and try to enjoy while they are present and Don't be bothered once they leave(be it anyone including friends and family).

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Agni007

2025-01-09

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Include wife and kids these days, be prepared for divorce, threats, blackmails, legal stuff, extramarital affairs of spouse, kids born crazy and what not...!

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yadavpg

2025-01-09

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«Any advice from fellow dimers regarding family, finance, life in general or anything would be very welcome.»

nothing much.
but yes, khao-piyo: mast raho!
life mein stress manage karna seekho.

technically 'grihasth aashram' ki aayu aa chuki hai.

bas aagey aap swayam sthaapit kar le.. kehne ka abhipraay.saavdhani hati.. durghatna ghati.

From breeding point of view, cross-cultural pair bonding is mostly good for the offspring.
More so if they are a home production with the DNA of two diverse and different lineage people coming together.

however 👼🏻adoption👶🏻 is just as great an option.

par haan, ek udaasi rehti hai.. agar 'desi' culture vilupt hota chala jaaye.. ya phir 'core' values dilute ho jaye.

Pehle pahal.. jab JMB (Jain Mishthaan Bhandar) ke outlet par gaya tha.. that time.. had enquired if the samisa have banana stuffing or something else.

Without blinking, the counter person (a family member) said that it is regular potatoes.

she was a Jain, I was not.. still i felt it was a bit wrong.

I am not validating any personal beliefs i am not validating any specific cultures.

but even in a fictional story like Star-Trek.. they still had specific identities left.

If we keep diluting or keep evolving our culture or systems such.. that none of it is left in 500 years.. then..

Ahh chuck it!
If not married yet, just get married SJ.
Unless you are a desi Zoroastrian (Parsi).. not justified to remain unmarried till in the forties.

Nibha lenge.. agar desi nn bhi hui tou.
Dhruv Rathi ki tarah.. aap ko bhi (kuch log) Deutsche charwaaha (shepherd) bolenge, at times.

Financial wealth apart.. health is THE ONLY wealth that one can use and lead a wholesome life.
One's own lifestyle choices have a complete bearing on it.

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desiman

2025-01-09

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Congratulations and all the best

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saurabh89

2025-01-09

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Give your value to your relation, you can earn money in less time but for a good relationship, you have to spend more time ..... Never leave your parents...