[Love+ Fear] My Two friend of different religion wants to marry
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HelloMy two friends (girl and a boy) wants to marry each other but they are in deep fear because of change in the marriage process.Please tell how do they register their marriage in court if you have knowledge.I have tell both of them not to do it but they are not listening to anyone (blind lovers dande khyge lagta h) Plz help any lawyer here.Both(girl and boy) areAge – 23 aroundState – uttarpradeshDegree – B tech from ghaziabad
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one of my cousins got married (during the lockdown) in recent months.
do not know whether they could have/ would have pushed it beyond June 2020 or not (June was somewhat decided upon in December 2019 or January 2020 itself).
but thanks to dear SARS-Cov-2 they had a reasonably budget (court marriage) wedding in June end.
usual court approval or notice/registration was done about 40-45 days prior.
on the D-day she and her beau/colleague turned fiancé just turned up at the family court; with just four other people! (the location was/is a stronghold of Covid).
No families, friends, relatives or anybody.
Just two of her friends/room mates and another cousin and his wife.
(although theirs is/was just a normal court registered marriage, i am assuming that the process for inter-religion marriage too would be same)
Reference To Context: this clip from Sundeep Sharma
P.S.: i am not aware of the socio-political nonsense or any law changes (if any).
Although, i do believe that if the judiciary had some spine (and were not lapdogs to the political establishment) then any law/ordnance would not be tenable under legal scrutiny IF IT HAS A BLANKET PROHIBITION ON CONVERSIONS even when there is no coercion involved.
(not that it matters, but my personal take is that: only weaklings or people who never really understood their own beliefs since childhood, get down to converting JUST FOR THE SAKE OF MARRIAGE FORMALITIES.
Clarification: above/previous sentence is only w.r.t. conversion for/to facilitate marrying. i am not opining on people who convert for other reasons: aside of formalising a marriage).
tell them to marry according to their family wish and continue their affair on the side … life will be more exciting …
anyways after marriage love will go for a toss
Do anything
But please don’t convert, either of them
Remain whoever you’re
And love each other
Peace
Boy(Religion A)
Girl(Religion B)
Suppose they marry, and choose to live with Religion A
Result:-
Boy family- Happy *in most cases
Girl Family- Angry
Suppose they marry, and choose to live with Religion B
Result:-
Boy family- Angry
Girl Family- Happy *in most cases
My Stupid advice:- Both Convert to Religion “C” and marry.In this way
Boy family- Little bit angry
Girl Family- Little bit angry
Very balanced situation. Good chance of compromise in future.
Plz do not take this seriously just saying what came in my mind. Sorry in advance.
@dealkeeper
Mention basic details atleast, whats the state ?
most importantly – the age…coz if they are under ~23 or something, good chance their love will end up in trash within 3-4 years.
Without more details people can’t help. India is too big and diverse to give out general advice.
op, dono b.tech pura kiya matlab vo bahut achhe se janthe hai ki kya sahi kya galat.
Engineers grow up early 
….Change state….UP is actual jungleraaj…
…They will harass you for sure….Media won’t tell you that self proclaimed right wing activists will come to your house to inquire and they will talk to neighbours as well…
….My wishes and I am more than happy wo help you in any which way I can…
Say No to love jihad and killing wife with childer and raping her with friends for not converting religion
Any how what’s the Girl religion? 
Both are Atheist(by thinking)
Will give you straightforward answer
1) First and Foremost You both need to be independent (Not just Boy)
2) Under Special Marriage Act schedule your marriage ( Notice before a month )
3) If you both truly Love each other then no one need to convert (If someone forces then simply quit) (Usually this wouldn’t matter if both are independent and True lovers) But never convert.
4) Result :- Your children’s wouldn’t have to suffer religion things they can celebrate all festivals.
Hope both are matured enough to understand the future and work upon the plan to make your love(marriage) successful.
Blind love without working to make it successful is just a time waste and time pass things. ( Have a plan and be serious along with being in blind love)
God bless ❤️
Spread Love and Peace always.
Does either of them having a job atleast? Do they have a plan A or B if their respective families do not accept this?
Especially if they grew up in their parents shadows, it’s gonna be most likely a roller coaster if they decides to live on their own. Love isn’t gonna feed you for sure.
Everone give there gyan and cry about stupid law and say hindus against love etc etc whena hindu girl and muslim boy is there.
But when a muslim girl and a hindu boy is there , either the boy and at times both the boy and the girl are being ruthlessly tortured to seprate first hand and next what i need not have to say,
First of all, don’t love.
Love itself very bad. First, achieve in life.
I wish to tell my opinion.
The problem with this type of marriage is.
See A parent grows a girl for long time and then just imagine their suffering to see they convert to some religion and name and dress and all.
It is very bad karma.
Marriage must happen not just by wills of lovers but with parents wish too.
Better don’t love.
Earn and become billionaire and marry any girl you want with parent permission.
Jai Shree Ram!
(not aware to the present case, but)
often it is
not😔 a matter of choice
but (of) 😔😕happenstance.
but over-all, i am with you on
the point of
Jai 👩🏻🦱Sushri 🙇🏻Devi Seeta!
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tell them to marry according to their family wish and continue their affair on the side … life will be more exciting …
anyways after marriage love will go for a toss
Boy(Religion A)
Girl(Religion B)
Suppose they marry, and choose to live with Religion A
Result:-
Boy family- Happy *in most cases
Girl Family- Angry
Suppose they marry, and choose to live with Religion B
Result:-
Boy family- Angry
Girl Family- Happy *in most cases
My Stupid advice:- Both Convert to Religion “C” and marry.In this way
Boy family- Little bit angry
Girl Family- Little bit angry
Very balanced situation. Good chance of compromise in future.
Plz do not take this seriously just saying what came in my mind. Sorry in advance.
23 is almost child marriage. Blind lovers…sigh!
Marriage will open their eyes faster than anything.