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Dear Goku,

I hope this reply finds you in good spirits. I appreciate your trust in seeking dimer’s advice regarding your relationship. we are here to offer support and guidance to the best of our ability.

I’m glad you reached out, and we’ll be more than willing to help you navigate the challenges you’re facing. To get started, start building your confidence towards female and don’t think you’re that bad, life is more beautiful than the girls who doesn’t care for us.

We can continue this conversation via posts, or if you’d prefer a more interactive discussion, we can schedule a phone call or a meeting in person, if feasible depending upon dimer’s availability. 

Remember that we’re here to listen and offer insights based on our experience, but ultimately, the decisions you make in your relationship should align with your values and what feels right for you.

Feel free to share more information, and we can proceed from there. Your openness and willingness to seek advice are commendable, and we are here to assist you in any way we can.

Warm regards,

Dimer’s relationship centre. 

Btw: Happy birthday bhai, sab moh maya hai, niklo bahar isse and life will look more beautiful than what you’re going through right now. Remember we all dimers love you, Delhi/NCR main ho chalo abhi tumhe aish karwa deta hu. 

just take deep breath and exhale from your mouth, do it for a few times. it's just many  emotions you are experiencing together making you feel feel this way, breathing will clear your head.

Now think why you are feeling like this???

it's just the expectation which you had with this girl and you didn't got what you had thought of.

This happens with all of us, expectations are sometimes fulfilled and sometimes we have to accept and move on. This is life, this is how we learn. Maybe she was not worth it, maybe she didn't feel the same and in the future you will find someone better or maybe you end up with the same girl, who knows.

But It all depends on you how you want to feel now. So, move on and be happy because this is what is in your control. It's your birthday today so cheer up brother and wish u a very "Happy Birthday" .

PS: Don't overthink much, just sleep instead of reading all the comments here. You will feel much better tomorrow and then come here.

Happy birthday! 

Jab tak ladki khud se Haan nahin bole tab tak uski yaadon se pustakaalaya naa sajaao.. 

Usko ek din roko, 950₹ do aur bolo yeh lo Saffola ka 5 litre tel le lena, 1 litre free aayega. 

BTW, happy birthday 🔥🔥

Also btw btw I thought u were singing taare zameen par song in title

Trust me when I say this. You're not the only one to feel this way. This feeling, the inside pain, that you're feeling, it will only make you stronger. Don't break yourself up over this. Inhale... Exhale...and you will feel better eventually. Stop giving her the due attention. She'll come around. And if she doesn't, Let Her Go.

And oh, Happy Birthday Brother. Stay strong.

@G0KU leave that girl and focus on other important things. 

Not all girls are same. She might be engaged with someone else outside library. 

think for other perspective or try to fit yourself in her shoe, you will find that your way. 

@G0KU bhai seriously ? "aur mai kon hota hu kuch bhi expect karne wla"....this line.Dude never ever expect too much from anyone and sometimes try to see things from other people's perspective.No,it's not your fault and it's not end of the world.Come on man cheer up there are many fish in the sea.Happy Birthday!! 🥳

Pyar wyar sab shokha hai.. bas free...

@Faug aap to garda uda diye 🔥 🔥 

@G0KU Bhai, focus on study. Kuch banoge to Ladki, Nokri,  Gadi sab mil jayegi. 

Aur kuch na bane,  to, chahe us ladki se hi shadi ho jaye, lekin jindagi m dhakke hi milege. Money matters!! See  @Faug

If you value your peace of mind, always go for the easy one. There's no need to complicate things, especially when we have a population of 1.4 billion people. 

Avoid being in a one-sided relationship at all costs. It's not as cool as it may seem; in fact, it's one of the worst things you can experience. Your mind will be consumed with useless thoughts about her. Additionally, it's important to learn how to move on quickly and not become too emotionally invested in a relationship until it's been established for a significant amount of time.

Ive been through this. 
Trust me u feel better without her. Oneside feelings are just like expressing ur feelings to a rock, coz u cant expect any expression from a rock.

Try to do something which u like most like Play games, watch movies, Hit Gym, Watch some P*rn (sometimes even the lust kicks in place of feelings). 

in billions of People we stickon to the most onsided toxic relations for the most part. so better avoid them and Move on.
 

Happy Birthday Bro.!

Don't think too much Bro! Just enjoy this beautiful life cycle. #Nachoo

When you like/love someone, it's not necessary that the opposite person may have the same feelings.

First, try to know her, communication is very necessary. Don't just fall in love by appearance of anyone. Compatibility and thinking of the person also matters. Don't share your feelings until you fully know someone and sure about the future.

I can understand exactly what you are going through right now, but trust me don't run after a girl. Right now you may feel a little hard,  but trust me you are saving yourself from the very big heartbreak in the future. (Which may definitely hurt you mentally and career wise as well.)

What she is doing is perfectly normal and Ok, no need to offend or feel low. Everyone has their own reasons. Girls have the sixth sense by which she knows that what you/any man is feels for her. She might be avoiding you for your own good. (To be sure, communication is necessary.)

Don't be sad coz just a single person has not wished you, be grateful for those who all are wishing you and be happy.

Happy Birthday Brother,

Something to cheer you 😉

@kukdookoo , Sharing this one with a friend in need. 😃

I had a bad b'day too this year (boycotted it myself, the worst year in my life)... looks like a contagious phenomenon...

You need to be more practical and trash any ideas that movies / web shows may have subconsciously buried in your head of how relationships happen. It is alright that you liked this girl at first sight and even took steps to express your interest. The girl did not reciprocate your interest. You should simply leave it at that and move on.

She ignores you because she does not want to confront you. If she does that, you will want an explanation and she may not have one. Or she may say something that will hurt you and you will create a scene.  Neither are you bad / wrong nor is the girl. Just because you liked her at first sight it is not necessary for her to like you at first sight or even after repeated sightings!

The pain feels like lifelong but it will pass away - may be in a few days or weeks or months or a few years. Don't resort to stupid things like drugs or alcohol or smoking. Do stuff that you like or used to like. Meet friends and talk about anything but her. You will look back and smile at this episode.

Expectation Kills

See you dont have any control over someone, what they think about you and how they feel about you

So

Instead of Expecting anything from anyone

Try to make yourself a better person

Work on that

And then

You will surely get what you deserves

Happy Birthday bhai. Bhai, consent is important. Uss ladki bhi chahna chahiye bhai. Agar usko aap pasand nai toh aap usse pasand karwa nai paenge. Iska matlab aap bure nai hai. Example muje sweets se samosa jyada ache lagte hai.  But sweet bure nai lagte. Sweets bahut log pasand karte hai.  Toh Jo sweet pasand ni karta, aka me, wo thodina bure Hain. Aur Jo samose se lagaw rakhte hain wo kya mahan atma hain? 

Aap pahle apne aap ko respect kijie. Wo ladki bhav noi deti thik hai. Bhai apko apke mata pita Janam diye hain. Apke dost ristedaar aapse pyar karte hain. Ap loved n wanted hain. Have this much of trust in your heart. And uss ladki kaa picha chodiye. Khudke life me thoda age badhiye. 20-30 naye logon se miliye. Partner mil jayenge. Mera age aur tajrube se ek baat sikha hun. Pyar ussi se kijie Jo apko pyar karta hai naa ki jisse aap pyar karte ho. Warna wo pyar ko koi reciprocate karega nai. 🙂 

You need  to understand if girl saying no then it means no only. 

Don't trouble her more. 

Padhaai likhai pe dhyan do beta warna kahi ka nahi chhorega tum ko ye luv shuv

Expectation Sucks !!

Don't Expect Someone feels the same way you feel about them .Simple as that .Don't do anything for temporary attraction.

You are maybe a good hearted person ,likewise she. It's just that your vibes don't match .Doesn't mean either of you are right or wrong .Just move on till you will find someone who matches your vibe .

And don't expect someone to advice you on how to deal with life .Everyone have their own shell of reality and versions of wisdom .Control your emotions and don't waste them for temporary setbacks .Good luck !!

Library padhney ke liye hoti hai.

do not waste time, move to other girl, you will get even better choice; no place for ego

better not to fall for just looks - "she is perfect for me" without even talking to her shows you are noob, take care

Happy Birthday and Good luck

I have felt this exactly...

There was one girl whom I used to talk to (i rarely talk to people ) we met in early 2020 , we used to talk a lot (not romantically  but in a friendly way ,in short being an introvert I don't have frnd so kind of she was the only one with whom I used to share a lot ) .her bday is just a day after mine but last year she didn't even wish me ever since she got a bf ..

Felt a lot of pain ,, still wished her on her bday...

Still nothing not even a belated wish from her...

The same repeat this year but this year I didn't feel any pain and didn't even wish her on  her bday ..

I have realised and limited myself now...

Relationships of any kind won't work one sided..

You too have to respect yourself ..

Padhna likhna terah baris

Once you realise life comes within you, you'll be more happier

Happy Birthday Brother!