joined two year back and saw a potential to discover it as great shopping site for ideas...but gradually felt that it is already rotten..
now, can't handle this more....admin will promote if u break rules and guidelines and break u if u protest against them..
they'll terminate your account if u hv multiple accounts but they themselves had enough...they will promote their accounts' deals and give badges to themselves...
these admins will give you "jhunjhuna" of dimes to remain your mouth shut up....
with recent deterioration, I don't want to continue with this bullsh*t officials...not doing due to dimers whom I admire and the ideas which is being nourished by them...
officials abused raviboy, no actions... they abused me, no actions..they scolded few others who are moderators but no actions...many more, can't count
have many things to write but now ....
it's better to delete this account and do a suicide to have peace now, it seems... I was born virtually and will die virtually or in reality, god/dd knows..
they never intended to improve Desidime but to rot this site at that extent that users itself leaves..
🤯😱😱😱😱😥😥😥😨😨😰😨😵💫😵💫😵💫🥶🥶🤯🤯😿😿😿.
What's happening?
New Kalesh ...Cold War....Coup [on]....Bhasad ???
Serious allegations !!!
Let's see what users and authority have to Say 👇👇👇
Upvote and like this comment and reply for greater reach....
not if allegations are on them.
Cheers mate, nothing is bigger than mental peace ✌️
Expectations hurt bro. Don't expect too much from the society and you will carry lesser burden.
Trying to fill a void perceived or real by attachment to an activity never fills it.
Look at me giving philosophical gyan at 1 AM , maybe i have nothing better to do or I'm just trying to pass my successful life in this insignificant way by choice 🤷♂️
Unsure (Vaguely aware) of what lead up to this moment with series of similar posts in the past serving as a half curtain-raiser to this big dramatic whistleblower moment yet not unveiling the big final revelation of the cause
I understand and relate much to what you’re conveying. I can really feel your frustration and pain through your words, and that you're going through such a tough time right now. It's hard when a space you once saw potential in starts to feel toxic like it's losing its way & unwelcoming, especially when you’ve invested time, energy, and ideas into it.
But I want to remind you that your voice and perspective matter far more than any negative actions of a few people. I know it might seem overwhelming right now, but you don’t have to carry this weight alone. If the community has become toxic for you, it might be worth considering taking a step back for your own mental and emotional well-being. Sometimes distancing ourselves from things that drain us can help us regain perspective.
There are many instances where things have not been considered or changed but at times fulfilled
It's important to keep in mind that the admins and their vision for the site are at the heart of how it runs—it’s their creation, their platform, and ultimately, their decisions shape the direction it takes. Just like any website or organization, it's their responsibility to guide it, but it’s up to us as users to determine how we interact with it, where we fit in, and how we contribute to its growth.
We can always offer suggestions, provide feedback, and make our voices heard, but at the end of the day, we have to understand the reality that the platform is theirs to manage. The world often works this way, where those who build something have the final say, but it’s still our choice how we engage and how we allow ourselves to be impacted by it. We have the power to choose how much space we give to it in our lives and whether or not it aligns with our values.
It really hurts when you see unfairness and feel powerless to change it, but that doesn’t mean you’re alone.
You’re part of a community of people who care about the ideas, the contributions, and the positivity you bring. Don't let the actions of a few people define how you feel about yourself or your worth.
If you're feeling overwhelmed, I encourage you to reach out to someone—whether it’s a friend, family member who can listen without judgment OR instead simply take your own time by Spending it as a Quality time with your closed ones or doing good stuffs whatever makes you feel better.
One's peace of mind is incredibly important, and it’s okay to take time to prioritize oneself, one's mental health, and one's own happiness.
I know it’s tempting to think the best option is to walk away from it all, but I want to encourage you to take a step back before making any drastic decisions. Sometimes, distancing yourself from negativity or toxic situations can help bring clarity and peace of mind. It’s okay to step away from things that no longer bring you peace, but don’t give up on yourself. You are stronger than you realize, and this moment doesn't define who you are or the impact you’ve made. You are important, and there are people out there who care about you.
If you ever need someone to talk to, I’m here. You're not alone in this.
Ultimately You should have the power to change what you can, and the strength to embrace what you can't.
Take care of yourself 💙
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I know you might be feeling sad or angry right now. But please don't make any big decisions based on these feelings. Take a break from this place and come back later when you feel better. Don't let mean people online hurt you.
You are important and loved. Take care of yourself.
Not sure what exactly is triggering you buddy.
But as we were talking yesterday certain things takes time to evolve, certain issues takes time to fix and with your & other dimers support (who always keep alerting us for bug fixes and other minor major issues) things can be solved better. A little patience and better communication is required. And as everyone said here dont make such decisions in haste.
क्या बात है पार्थ भैया, दो मेल भेजा उसका तो अभी तक रिप्लाई नहीं मिला आपके द्वारा!
और better communication कैसे, संवाद तो बराबरी वाले होती है। कहां आप इस Desidime के व्यवस्थापक सरकार, मेरे जैसे तुच्छ उपयोगकर्ता की क्या बिसात!! feedbacks भी देकर क्या फायदा, बस झूठा आश्वासन अभी तक मिला है। करेंगे तो आप वही जो आप चाहेंगे, हमारी किन बातों को गंभीरता पूर्वक लेते (*शर्ते लागू)
कहने को बहुत बातें हैं, पर विचलित है ये मन! व्यथा किसको सुनाऊं, हे मोहन!
Thank God you didn’t say ‘Jate jate ID/Password dete jaana’ lol!!
@quantum open letter for u
My observation is same as yours. You did right thing by posting this.
I condemn these acts of abusing/ disrespecting/bribeing/ misuse of power/misuse of authority.
Yes improvement is needed; things are not going in right direction. Those observing silently must react before it's too late.
Leaving a place which is getting dirtier day by day isn't a solution, either be the change or bring the change is all i see as solution. And i know you can do it.
I hereby will support you fullest of my capacity and capability no matter what steps or actions this platform is willing to take on me Cos raised concern is factual, true and my observation is same.
P.S. if it would have been for a person, i haven't had commented. Being a part in a community, it's my duty to take stand when things are going in wrong direction.
Sincerely
HasdaChehra 🥂
I echo the sentiments of our sentimental dimer.
I Repeat few from above.
Over time I have found an attitude change
FEW ARE
Utter disregard for rules by admins
Weird interpretation of rules to suit their immediate need and reversing
them to your changing needs.
Lack of democracy and transparency (yes, I did find that it was there in plenty
when it was started ,over time deteriorated ) . Admins behave as if it is their family
business and they are unquestionable kings
Admins never reply or take no notice of dimers serious concerns.
Admins promote groupism and formation of cartels that doctors
Deal behavior
few admins that lacks basic awareness about the currrent deals
There is no dead end for passionate ones.
you need to make your own way to move ahead.
Haha, Die Peacefully. But You are Coward, You Should Die as a Warrior and Not RanchhorDas.
I Thought You Were Chhatukaar of Officials, Good to Know That You were Not.
But Your Decision Made Me Ponder to Get Back to My Previous Sites. I Will Make A Post and Will Delete My Account After Analysing For Some Time for Solidarity.
it is actual dealposters like you that makes this forum stay alive
you spend time and efforts to get the best deals for the community , while the users and the owners get to enjoy the free ki revdi
all this for what? those 5 - 10 rupee dimes for each deal I sure is not worthy of your time, your efforts are worthy of much more than this
the least you can expect is being treated by respect
if i were you and if i cared about my self respect i wouldn't endure this suffering any more, i have seen your posts
you have the talent and the grit, i am sure you can utilise it much better at places where your skills are valued
Please avoid mentioning words like 'suicide' in a letter. We can’t predict how it might affect others, especially those who feel they’re at a 'dead end.' I hope your grievance is resolved soon.
@bumblefoot and other admins. I love you guys. Have a great day ahead. 🙂
@quantum bro, we started our journey on this platform almost together (yours as quantum, while mine as newbie).
Since than I have observed your commitments, involvements and dedication in your comments.
Haters were calling you DD bhakt/ cowards etc. (Ya read this words over the forum many times)
Deep down all your haters also know that DD is nothing without you.
I have observed when you are inactive for few days things always go haywire on forum.
You strict comments/scolding keep everything in check always.
Already people has wrote so much so, I can only say it's a loss of DD and Dimers over long term.
@bumblefoot @Priyanka @Rosh_0007 it's your responsibility to not let him go.
He has given too much to the forum.
Especially his precious time. He always rotate his time of presence on forum to see if all good.
Resolve the misunderstanding/complaint whatever it is.
Suggestions for improving platform operations:
Such entitlement ? Please do not keep yourselves attached to these online stuffs ... learn to loose .
Life is much bigger than a online forum / group / friends ... and democracy doesn't work in any forum or any entity .
This will be my suggestion for everyone .
Nothing is permanent .
Did I just read ' suicide' ?
I've been part of this community for almost 10 years, and unfortunately, I've seen a pattern of disregard towards members by some administrators. Many members, including myself, have faced issues and been undervalued.
When someone presents facts, some admins respond aggressively, and if the community starts to support the member, the admins often silence the conversation by locking the thread.
Sadly, this behavior has driven away several notable and senior members, including @Beinghuman and @Dealmafia Their departure is a significant loss to our community.
Not sure what exactly is triggering you buddy.
But as we were talking yesterday certain things takes time to evolve, certain issues takes time to fix and with your & other dimers support (who always keep alerting us for bug fixes and other minor major issues) things can be solved better. A little patience and better communication is required. And as everyone said here dont make such decisions in haste.
Open war between two groups of admins. 😂
Movie just started. 🥳lot of entertainment ahead. 😂
Want to buy lot of popcorns. Any good deal available on popcorns. 😂😂😂
I read your post today, and honestly, it really hit hard. I know you’re upset and feeling let down by the way things have been managed, and I completely understand why you feel this way. But I want to take a moment to tell you something important.
This platform needs people like you — people who are passionate, dedicated, and fearless when it comes to calling out what’s wrong. From the time I joined, I’ve seen how professionally and thoughtfully you handle things, and that has been a big inspiration to many of us, including me.
Yes, you’ve been strict at times, and maybe even scolded me once or twice when I slipped up. Back then, I felt bad, but over time, I realized you were doing it not to hurt anyone but to maintain the standards and discipline this community needs. Without people like you stepping up, things would have gone haywire long ago.
I’ve noticed the dullness here lately, and honestly, I think a big part of it is because you haven’t been as active. Your presence doesn’t just ensure rules are followed; it also motivates and supports people. You’re the first to guide a newbie and the first to stop something wrong from happening. That balance of kindness and firmness is rare, and it’s what makes you stand out.
I get that things may seem frustrating, unfair, and even hopeless at times, but please don’t let that overshadow the incredible impact you’ve made here. If you feel wronged, I’d urge you to communicate, address things directly, and even give some tough love to those who need it. Sometimes it works wonders.
Please don’t make any drastic decisions like quitting or thinking this platform doesn't value you. The truth is, people like you are the backbone of this community. You might not always get recognition, but your efforts are seen, felt, and deeply appreciated by many of us.
I genuinely hope you reconsider and stay with us. The Dimers here need your guidance, and this platform would feel empty without you. Whatever happens, please remember: you’ve always been a gem to this community.
Take care, bhai. We're all here for you & We Need You!!!!