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Any Lawyer friend plz help!!!! plz suggest me about wife cheating

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Harish.Khattar
please friends,help me out..both of us are Govt. Banker & living separately from our hometown,,,there was some small dispute among both of us since marriage. marriage occur some months ago and no sexual relation between us since marriage day. At present scenario, she called police (13.7.17)and made application of domestic violence to them. case forwarded to women cell- one month passed. Further, 4.8.17 i cant handle mental burden & came back at my hometown and living with my parents. now she filed another application at nearest police station for theft of gold, cash etc. and threaten me for my and my family's govt. job. I found some medical prescription on my last day while packing my luggage about her running treatment of HERPES since before marriage. Image link for wife prescription: REMOVED please help me, should i continue this relation. please give legal advice about this fraud of incurable disease.
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Benevolent Benevolent
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Oh God!
Go for divorcé. Was it arranged marriage?
Consult good lawyer. No other way out.
That is how girls turn a common man to a criminal.
Accept what you are in now and get ready to face it – don’t come under pressure or neglect health – Take care

Deal's Advocate Deal's Advocate
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First if all sad that the guy landed in this situation, second divorce cannot be given in first year if marriage due to restitution of conjugal rights RCR, so he has has to wait atleast 1 year to get the mutual consent divorce or divorce with some or complete alimony. Now after reading the situation it’s looks like a honey trap where woman is trying to use him to get alimony which will gonna happen if it will not be a mutual consent divorce.
If the woman is smart enough she also gonna file cas against him in IPC 498A, which is the biggest evil of current scenario where there are chances that he gonna land up in jail. Also if the woman has written any other family members name in the police complaint as he already mention in the description then police also can release search Warren against those family member of the boy and there are more likely chance that the innocent family member of him will also gonna land up behind the bar irrespective of anything due to our legal system

Deal Captain Deal Captain
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eek omg
Deal Cadet Deal Cadet
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bro.. i think because of herpes problem only she s avoiding you and like to apply divorce.. if she directly applied divorce means court will ask the reason so she s trying to making a script for you as a criminal and sure she will apply divorce because she s not willing to expose her disease.. sad

Deal's Advocate Deal's Advocate
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My advice first start your research on similar issue by referring “wakil search” and “lawyers club india” you will easily find these community on Google. After knowing about all the ins and outs you must hire a lawyer who can help you in this case.
Bro I don’t know what are the chance of you being safe in this matter but try your best to keep our clean. Make sure your parents or any family member should not become a victim of this since DVA and Ipc 498a has a lot of loopholes which may cause a lot of trouble for you.

In the end since k really didn’t wanted to say this but if you are really sure that your wife is cheating then all the evidence against her which will save you and your family because court runs and asks for strong and concrete evidence. Have all facts and figures very clear otherwise trust me your are in deep shit situation.

Hope god save you bro, all the best.

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Also let me know if I can be a help at any point if time with understanding anything related to law and orders, if face any difficulties findings a good and reasonable lawyer etc.
I would also like to say since we are human and we usually start believing on one side of the story I don’t know whats is the situation at girls side may be she would also be thinking the same and have not shared with you so I would also advice you to before going for any legal remedies or any legal action first sit and talk to her.

Try all your best to get it sorted mutual at your level first. I know she has filed a police case but that can easily be called off once you guys sort out the issue at your level.

We are human thrives of love and care, show her the respect she deserves and try making the situation better trust me there is no better way than this and try find where you are wrong and correct it before it’s too late. lol lol

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please help me, should i continue this relation. please give legal advice about this fraud of incurable disease.
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Seriously? u are asking others?
Take care of your things , you don’t need anyone’s help
This is a shitty idea asking other help regarding your personal life
No one knows better about your relationship than you n her

and if you are looking for a legal advice, try posting a question here https://www.kaanoo...m/
One question costs about 400/500

Benevolent Benevolent
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yeah he’s right how come you could share your personal life in such an open forum.
My advise is strictly against this.
Consult your/her near and dear ones who u’all really value a lot.
Sit together and think about this bro!

This is your life your own future. Don’t get a divorce mahn.

Consult some specialist in this disease coz i feel hardly there are any disease which is not curable even cancer can be cured YUVI is the best example.

Dont make stupid decisions bro reading all these comments mahn

Deal Lieutenant Deal Lieutenant
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I would advice you to continue your relation. Talk with her about what plaguing your conjugal life. Tell her to take back her police complaint. Make her believe that you really feel for her and you want the relation to work. Any sane woman would not want her husband to suffer unless you are too harsh on her.

Deal's Advocate Deal's Advocate
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he should also remove the prescription image since it’s a violation of fiducery relationship.

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Deal Colonel Deal Colonel
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you put a case on her about not disclosing abt incurable disease, .. there was some small dispute among both of us since marriage – hiding something here ?

Deal Subedar Deal Subedar
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Well since she already filed case twice then i dont think anyone here can help you. Contact a lawyer as soon as possible. Trust me mate you are in deep shit if you dont do something now.

Deal's Advocate Deal's Advocate
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Any matter can get settled outside the court it’s all depends on the will of parties…

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@@@Harish.Khattar@@ consult a good criminal lawyer. You can also file domestic violence case against her. you should file as soon as possible. keep that prescription safe for future use. try to investigate her medical history through prescription , the dr. who prescribed. you want to say that since marriage no sex between you and wife. this is a big issue. sex and reproduction is basis of marriage… if you want i can send you SC law on this.

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she is saying everyone that, i didn’t make relations with her. my husband torched me mentally via not accepting her physically etc. etc.

Entertainer Entertainer
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VU by mistake. Sorry having read about your private affairs.

Deal Lieutenant Deal Lieutenant
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Public forum mein daloge…toh sabhi padhenge na toungueout wink

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1. If she files a case of dowry it’s non-bailable offence. You will be put behind bars immediately.
2. If there’s criminal case against you already I am surprised how come you haven’t met a lawyer yet.
3. At smart, use your brain don’t get emotional. You need some strength to fight since the relationship is already FUBAR.
4. Gather all evidences you can. And use your lawyer to send her message subtly that if she doesn’t withdraw the cases you will get local media(newspaper) involved and it destroy her life. The herpes angle is your leverage.
5. Get bold and don’t show weakness. File counter cases if you have to.
6. And get a good lawyer’s advice not post in forums.

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Divorce de.. Baat khatm kar.. And enjoy life

Deal Newbie Deal Newbie
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2she is saying that all of life she will not give me divorce….she wants me to see suffering.

bcoz she says everytime that “you make me shame towards family, it was our personal matter”

now we came to know via her reports that she is having herpes which is not curable at all.

Deal Cadet Deal Cadet
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divorce itni aasani s milta to bht s log jo jahar k ghut pi pi kr jindagi guazar rhe h wo kab ka le lete..

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Kya baat kahi h aapne surprised

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Deal Newbie Deal Newbie
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i went to an advocate… he is saying that untill FIR is lodged, they are having no role in this case. They make arrange bail for me, if i got arrest…. after that they will start proceedings… is this OK …………or i should take more preventive measures

Deal Cadet Deal Cadet
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Ask her for settlement with some money

Mobile Guru Mobile Guru
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That some will cost his a lot, if he wants out of the marriage

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@Harish.Khattar u registered new and chose this forum to share the problem or dilemma u are in and i guess u got some valuable inputs and advice from our dimer friends to help u in this ordeal.

But now I would suggest u and all others who are extending help to do over message to eachother as this is very personal matter and not fit for an open forum discussion.

Dimers do ping him if u have any say in this… will be locking this thread in sometime.

Deal's Advocate Deal's Advocate
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Absolutely agree with this, since this forum is not the right pace for such discussions

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Deal Newbie Deal Newbie
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O my god …

Deal Lieutenant Deal Lieutenant
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@Harish.Khattar brother first of all you should not have disclosed her secrets to your mother. There is something called privacy which should be only between her and you. Anyways, now tell her that you are sorry for what you did. Try to gain her trust back. Thats the only way out. I know its hard. But try once. God will give you the power to overcome this difficult situation.

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I m CA final student too bro but bachlor I completely understand ur priorty . When ever u talk on phone or meet her . Always take a spy cam and recorded her every move and appoint a gud lawyer its support u . God bless u

Deal Newbie Deal Newbie
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thnx a ton cor great concern frnz!!! but i feel sorry many a times towards her for my mistake of this breach of privacy…. but now she didn’t understanding….. but i feel she made fraud to me by concealing her disease of HERPES virus-1 and 2…. HERPES is very bad/incurable disease i am feeling after google search

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I don’t think op is innocent here.usually women won’t took such harsh decisions without any strong reason.seems op’s family tortured her so much in several ways either it’s intentional or in some kind of depression may be.i don’t think herpes is a very bad decease to avoid her.so i am suggesting you to start love her,first avoid all family members sayings and meet her personally ,try to spend a quality time with her ,don’t feel shame to say sorry to her.

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