A "Happy Women's Day" Message

Hi,
I wish all the women’s of the world a very happy women’s day. A lot of people find this day as a sexist day, as there is no men’s day. In my opinion,a lot of humans are oppressed everyday. Majority of the oppressed ones are women.

I want everyone to start accepting women as normal people, not some complicated sirens. Who is not complicated? It’s rather fortunate of us that no device has been invented to read one’s mind. You ll surprised, how dirty we really are. It’s fine.

Now women’s are scientists, doctors, engineers, bureaucrats, politicians, actors, models, pornstars, sports persons, soldiers. I mean the year we are living in, may be the best year women ever had , all over the world. I salute them for keep on grinding everyday, not breaking down under pressure.

The problem starts, when media, folklores and mostly us start portraying as goddesses, succubi, beauty queens, coc*teases, sirens, wh*res, villainesses. It’s a major problem. Because a woman has to fit in the characteristics of those predefined social molds.

It’s equally important to acknowledge women as normal human beings. They pee, they shit, they f*ck, they smell bad, they can be cruel as a man, they can cheat and mostly they are mortals. And we men are no different than that. There are couple of psychological differences out there because of evolutionary processes, because they give birth to babies. And I am glad they are like that without it I won’t exist today to write this.

Women too make sacrifices. They also leave mother n father to be with life partners. They also undergo the same grind a man undergoes. They also work their ass off to compete in workplace. They also take care of their families. They also support their husbands with money. Most of them have leave their own family to be with husband’s family. Society expects it to be normal, which is not. What if her parents have one her as a child, what shall happen to them in their old age? Let’s allow her to support her parents, her unemployed brother n sister like we do. Right?

So, I humbly request people to acknowledge a woman as a human first. Let’s acknowledge their intelligence, work capabilities, ability to do a better job than male co-worker, and her consent and ownership of her sexuality. 🙂

I strongly believe sexuality and love are two sides of the coin “humanity”. There are reasons for our existence. And there is a glue called Respect, which keeps us track and keeps binding us together. A lot of people must be confusing the term sexuality with sexual activity. I believe anything related to gender can be accepted as sexual in nature. For example in brotherhood of a group of people, women seldom have a place. Brotherhood bonds over masculinity and how do you know one is a male; by urinating in a urinal in a same way I believe. Same goes with females too. And it’s fine. We must acknowledge these things.

Women’s are doing great today and will do great the day after. But the people who don’t belong either of the sexual identities, namely male n female, are still oppressed today. Kristen Beck is an ex Devgru operator. She changed her sex after her military career. She is shunned in her community. It’s a bad thing. The hizras of train station still have to clap to make a living. A lot of transvestites do a good job at bureaucracy or business world, yet are forced to identify with male or female. It should change. I request you to change your views too.

Let’s not make females and female related topics taboo no more. Let’s allow them to be who they are. And we can still expect love from some of them. Don’t our mothers, sisters, wives, gfs love us? And in return let’s respect their consent and let’s stop this rapey tradition that’s going on in India today.

I believe I must have disrespected a lot of people here. I am not sorry for that. Let’s celebrate women’s day the way it should be.

Thanks and Regards
bikidas2060