life becomes so boring at a point

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Deal Subedar
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Currently I'm feeling very bored about life.

Like I'm feeling everything has stopped. And now I need something new to start to make my dry life better.

What should one do when she or he feels like zero at a point in life?
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Blaze Blaze
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Walk, yoga, exercise, plan outdoors, visit various places, eat good food. Meditate

Deal Cadet Deal Cadet
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Educate people on how they should be logical in each and every aspect of their life. How people should help others, why they need to avoid superstitions. Educate them about what are the good foods, what are the bad foods. 

There are lot of things to do in our life. I personally feel that one life is not enough to fulfil all my 'to-do' list. There is no place of boredoms! 

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Blaze Blaze
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Walk, yoga, exercise, plan outdoors, visit various places, eat good food. Meditate

Patron Patron
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Just like a real Sadhu.

Forgetting one point - point_up point_up point_up

Playing Card to Card, malamal game.

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Deal Cadet Deal Cadet
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plan solo travelling, meet new people & make new friends

Helpful Helpful
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if u dont mind ..ur age ?

Deal Cadet Deal Cadet
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Take a break from your existing routine, try new things. Go on a solo adventure of life. Try spirituality, its a never ending journey to know more about yourself ✌️

(I even handle a spiritual community myself on twitter, dm if interested)

Generous Generous
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try that rope harder next time

Deal Newbie Deal Newbie
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wat dafaq mate!

#Kota #student #vibes
Deal Cadet Deal Cadet
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take some huge loans for house, car etc. you will feel lively again. emi should be at least 80% of your take home..😄

Tech Guru Tech Guru
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Isko le dala to life jhinga lala

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Deal Cadet Deal Cadet
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Educate people on how they should be logical in each and every aspect of their life. How people should help others, why they need to avoid superstitions. Educate them about what are the good foods, what are the bad foods. 

There are lot of things to do in our life. I personally feel that one life is not enough to fulfil all my 'to-do' list. There is no place of boredoms! 

Benevolent Benevolent
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subse khus insan tum hi ho. 

Wingman Wingman
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1. Get married

2. If already married take loan and buy house

Generous Generous
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You want to kill his boredom or make his life hell instead ? 😂

Savings Mentor Savings Mentor
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Go to a gym, travel, share the wealth with the truly hardworking, deserving and needy and try to earn it back if life has become boring 🙂

Brand Enthusiast Brand Enthusiast
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Travel if bank account balance permits or else read a book 😃
Deal Captain Deal Captain
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Guess,  just_talk  hasn't helped, now is time for some action

Deal Cadet Deal Cadet
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Amarkantak darshan ke liye chale jao aur agar acha Lage to waha se Narmada maiya ki 2600 km ki yatra per nikal jao. Jab gaon dehat ki dikkat pareshaniyan dekhoge tab shayad tumhe apni ye privileged life (don't know much about you but I think that you know what you are going to have your next meal) bohot achhi lagne lagegi. 


Deal Newbie Deal Newbie
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Swades - We the people philum
phir se dekh liye ho recently shayad.

Not bad.
(Although I personally all but stopped giving suggestions, advice involving personal beliefs, without first being fully aware of someone's disposition. Someone may have the same personal beliefs, others may not. And also it varies from individual to individual as to how strongly or loosely they believe in them.)
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Deal Newbie Deal Newbie
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Maybe getting some new skill sets/ qualifications, learning g some art or language or dedicating self in some creative hobbies might help?

Someone I know merged two of these and created another source of income for themselves by learning to grow decorative and actual useful (fruit bearing) bonsai trees/plants and selling them.
Another got herself a translators job at a consulate.

For deeper mental health issues or something going off in life... never too late to open up to some close confidant/s (could be a close relative, sibling, friend, mentor, senior or anyone with maturity and enough life exposure) or even a mental health care professional/clinic (including government hospitals.. where charges are negligible).
Deal Cadet Deal Cadet
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How to land a job at the Consulate?
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Cool Cool
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Rx,

Start comments and publish post on Desidime....it will help other dimers whereas other dimers will fight, ask questions to you etc ... and this way your boredome wil be removed....try once...revert back next week

Deal Cadet Deal Cadet
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Gym jao, badhiya khana khao aur without fail ek chakkar chalao bhai. Life rangin ho jayegi. Ladki ate hi life main busy ho jaoge!

Deal Newbie Deal Newbie
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Make a motive to achieve something, don't disturb when you get failed pensive, try and try again new things which interest you. When you have a motive, you will never get bored from life, you will need extra time for your such dreams. Be busy and enjoy each moments of life.

Might be some task doesn't look valued, but you don't know how much it will teach you and who knows it might come out some amazing project.

Keep going and do your best!!

Deal Newbie Deal Newbie
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Someone I know adopted (took care of) strays (dogs, mules/donkeys deserted by previous humans, stray cats and so on). If not possible to house them in one's own home,he society/colony compound. Else they took them to a shelter.
Spreading awareness, getting pamphlets printed or arranging nukkad nataks (street plays), paying for medications and doctor's visits or seeking donations if needed.

Another person I know, adopted anew born which was deserted by the biological mother and kept at an orphanage.
(The single person had already been in the queue to be an adoptive parent.)

So yes, getting a purpose in life or motive to push oneself DEFINITELY helps.

And it motivates us/others too. Like the people who take care of flora, fauna.. we are eager to take care of feeding duties for the crows, parrots that come on the terrace of two of the people in that group. So in case (for whatever reasons) they have to travel outstation, we/others are falling over each other to get to cook the porridge or rice/khichdi for the birds and then laying it out at the specified times.

Bird baths, water too.. for birds and larger animals.. if space on ground permits.
Deal Subedar Deal Subedar
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I watched good movies with subtitles (from other regional to international), there are a LOT of hidden gems that were NEVER heard in mainstream/paid articles.

There are good comedy/feel good/slice of life dramas too. Well, that keeps my mind off the boredom cyclic work life. Can't take too much long vacation as my work life doesn't permit and I'm a bit tight on budget too.

Hope it helps.

Helpful Helpful
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Just remember suicide is no solution smile

My 2 cents - Join salsa class at some reputed dance studio. 

Deal Newbie Deal Newbie
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Out of the blue!
I mean it is good to dissuade, if someone was contemplating.

But otherwise you/we are just seeding/planting an idea in some reader's mind.. where none existed earlier.
Deal Captain Deal Captain
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Arey yaar yeh sab tho teek hain, lekin OP gaya kahan smile

Deal Newbie Deal Newbie
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Kasol, Manali = 🍀inner peace🍃
Deal Subedar Deal Subedar
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shaadi kar le bhai/behen

Deal Cadet Deal Cadet
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Me tooo 

No money 

No job 

Heavy workload giving some bucks 

No hope 

No future 

All is blank 

Deal Lieutenant Deal Lieutenant
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Earth is rotating at 4 Degrees per minute how can u stop ... smile

Start giving to others not in the form of money only  but smile ,joy , anything you have  u will receive it back and it will satisfy ur inner thing .

When u see life itself is a pattern only so it will have all the phases again and again so ...

Start new things which u wanted to do

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Deal Captain Deal Captain
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